Tactics that Trip You Up: Reading the Slouch

Tactics that Trip You Up: Reading the Slouch

There are some behaviours that can initially confuse or distract you from recognising a controlling person. Tactics that trip you up. One part of the solution is understanding it takes time to ‘read’ the clues that help you make sense of…

Impolite, Insolent and Improper – Don’t Ignore This!

Impolite, Insolent and Improper – Don’t Ignore This!

Ignoring workplace incivility is a costly risk to your business Wikipedia describes workplace incivility as “… low-intensity [aberrant] behaviour with ambiguous intent to harm the target. Uncivil behaviours are characteristically rude and discourteous, displaying a lack of regard for others”. You might…

The 3 Essentials for Conflict Confidence with Difficult People

The 3 Essentials for Conflict Confidence with Difficult People

Keep your observation objective, remain curious and manage your connection during conflict situations with difficult and controlling people. These 3 skills are the foundations for confidence in highly challenging relationships. Step Back & Observe Everyone has their own preferred story…

5 Key Indicators you are Dealing with a Highly Controlling Person

5 Key Indicators you are Dealing with a Highly Controlling Person

Domineering, demanding, difficult, controlling, bossy, inflexible, over-the-top, short–fuse, Drama Queen/King… All words often used to describe someone whose comments, behaviour and attitudes can make your working life hell.  1. They are Star of every Story they tell. Controlling people want you…

Buddhist Perspectives on Depression

Buddhist Perspectives on Depression

Depression has been a part of the human condition for as long as history has been recorded. Known by various epithets such as melancholy and the black dog, recent advances in treatment – medication, alternative and therapeutic – have helped…

Private: Great Sex is all about Listening

Private: Great Sex is all about Listening

I want to talk to you about making love. Not sex but making love happen, in the small and important moments together, so that even when you’re having a difficult discussion or disagreement, you know how to make love happen…

5 Sure-Fire Tips to Insure Your Marriage

5 Sure-Fire Tips to Insure Your Marriage

What are the secrets to lasting relationship success? The secret is 6 hours a week. Happy couples consciously devote 6 hours per week to looking after their relationship. It’s like an insurance package for your happiness as a couple. This…

7 Simple Steps to Living with Purpose

7 Simple Steps to Living with Purpose

What’s your definition of a purposeful life? For me, it’s being able to live my life without the inner conflict that stops me from sharing my personal and professional strengths. It’s the confidence to shine, have some spark and stand…