Reading the Slouch – Part 2

Reading the Slouch – Part 2

When I published ‘Reading the Slouch’ in April this year, I was overwhelmed by the responses I received from my readers. That article explored the subtle tactics in a controlling relationship and introduced Matt and Claire. So many emails saying “Thank you. I know…

What is the Arc of Your Story?

What is the Arc of Your Story?

Conflict makes our world turn, our heads spin, our hearts race and sometimes our hearts break.  It is the arc of every story, song, movie and indeed, many of your thoughts. What you rehearse becomes your reality. You are the…

The 3 Essentials for Conflict Confidence with Difficult People

The 3 Essentials for Conflict Confidence with Difficult People

Keep your observation objective, remain curious and manage your connection during conflict situations with difficult and controlling people. These 3 skills are the foundations for confidence in highly challenging relationships. Step Back & Observe Everyone has their own preferred story…

Private: Great Sex is all about Listening

Private: Great Sex is all about Listening

I want to talk to you about making love. Not sex but making love happen, in the small and important moments together, so that even when you’re having a difficult discussion or disagreement, you know how to make love happen…

5 Sure-Fire Tips to Insure Your Marriage

5 Sure-Fire Tips to Insure Your Marriage

What are the secrets to lasting relationship success? The secret is 6 hours a week. Happy couples consciously devote 6 hours per week to looking after their relationship. It’s like an insurance package for your happiness as a couple. This…

Gottman Method Couples Therapy

Gottman Method Couples Therapy

The Gottman Method Couples Therapy for Healthy Relationships There’s science and art to creating strong, satisfying and lasting relationships. Dr John Gottman’s ground-breaking research shows that to make a relationship last, couples must become better friends, learn to manage conflict,…