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August 24, 2026
When a relationship is in serious trouble and connection unravels, and emotional distance becomes painful, a couple has essentially three choices: 1. Continue as is… ongoing conflict and misery. 2. […]
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March 14, 2018
There are some behaviours that can initially confuse or distract you from recognising a controlling person. Tactics that trip you...
March 7, 2018
Ignoring workplace incivility is a costly risk to your business Wikipedia describes workplace incivility as “… low-intensity [aberrant] behaviour with ambiguous intent...
February 22, 2018
Keep your observation objective, remain curious and manage your connection during conflict situations with difficult and controlling people. These 3...
February 19, 2018
Domineering, demanding, difficult, controlling, bossy, inflexible, over-the-top, short–fuse, Drama Queen/King… All words often used to describe someone whose comments, behaviour and...
February 19, 2018
Depression has been a part of the human condition for as long as history has been recorded. Known by various...
November 14, 2017
I want to talk to you about making love. Not sex but making love happen, in the small and important...
September 7, 2017
What are the secrets to lasting relationship success? The secret is 6 hours a week. Happy couples consciously devote 6...
August 24, 2017
What’s your definition of a purposeful life? For me, it’s being able to live my life without the inner conflict...
July 27, 2017
The Gottman Method Couples Therapy for Healthy Relationships There’s science and art to creating strong, satisfying and lasting relationships. Dr...
