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August 24, 2026
When a relationship is in serious trouble and connection unravels, and emotional distance becomes painful, a couple has essentially three choices: 1. Continue as is… ongoing conflict and misery. 2. […]
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October 15, 2018
Not many organisations define their values and service practice succinctly and in a way that captures your imagination. Rembrandt Living,...
September 24, 2018
When I published ‘Reading the Slouch’ in April this year, I was overwhelmed by the responses I received from my readers. That...
September 19, 2018
Julie is in my office again, frustrated with herself because she blew her cool with her ex, and found herself...
September 8, 2018
Psst: Contrary to popular belief, confidence is not an emotion. I used to think that confidence was feeling cool and...
September 3, 2018
Workplace conflicts steal your energy and motivation at the office. Not to mention the additional stress you take home, the...
September 3, 2018
This is a remarkable story about how to resolve workplace conflict with mindfulness and empathy. There are many bridges to...
August 30, 2018
When a family breaks up it is an anxious time for any parent. You’re struggling with your own personal pain...
August 13, 2018
Oh, I have I got a tale for you! Margaret’s story Margaret and I met a cocktail networking event, an...
August 13, 2018
How do you recognise controlling people? People who are likely to behave in ways that are conflict-driven, controlling, or manipulative,...
